Wednesday, November 14, 2012

it may be time to shut up and do something



I am thankful, but I'm not content.  I am hopeful, but I'm not confident.  I am proud to be an American, but I am not at ease.  This election season has agitated me, but I hope it’s a purposeful agitation. 

Your truth is not my truth.  Your opinion is not my opinion.  And guess what, that’s okay.  Stop telling me I can’t feel the way I do and stop insinuating that I’m an idiot because I may disagree with you.  The point is that there are far too few facts out there.  These opinions that guide people are built on half-truths, if any truth at all.  You cannot claim to have a complete understanding of a book when you only highlighted one sentence in chapter five and based your comprehension of the book on that one highlighted sentence.  You missed chapters one through four, and you left out chapters six through ten.  

But even bigger than that, we’ve missed much, much, much more than that.  While people were participating in partisan arguments, a child committed suicide. Children had to skip meals to save money for the family, another veteran couldn’t find a job (the unemployment rate for all Veterans continues to fall), children were sold into slavery, and millions of people carried on under the burden of an undiagnosed mental disorder and depression; all of this within the borders of the United States of America.


1 in 65,000 children ages 10 to 14 commit suicide each year[1].  In America, more than 1.3 million children will be homeless this year[2] and 17 million children live in households where they have to skip meals or eat less to make ends meet[3].  In 2011, there were 2,234 children waiting to be adopted in NC alone[4].  Young boys and girls in every city on the globe are forced to serve as sex slaves[5].


I am truly grasping for answers; I have set out to search not for the meaning of life, but for a life with meaning.   I believe that it our experiences along the journey of living teach us two crucial lessons: compassion and complacency thus leaving us with two major choices: mercy and self-righteousness.  While we are a conglomeration of each, one will lead.  Personally, I hope for compassion and mercy to lead my footsteps. 

Listening and watching during this heated election season caused me to try to identify things that are important to me.  Each of us have a platform, in a sense, a cause we support, an allegiance we grip, and a right we do not wish to give up.   These days, our opinions win out over the facts and we base our identity around what we want to be the truth, not what is the truth. (Of course, some could debate for hours regarding the definition of truth.)  Obama supporters degrade Republicans as a whole and Romney supports degrade Democrats as a whole.   Here’s the deal, it takes two to tango:  Democrats and Republicans, each side with their own truth, agenda, opinions and facts that make them look better than the “opposition”, this is the problem.   

No longer do we purposely and decidedly debate and discuss to seek the best solution for our country as a whole.  There is simply a divide that is heart breaking--- no longer the betterment of the whole; it’s the betterment of whatever “side” someone is on.  And please don’t tell me it’s not true, I’ve read the Facebook rants and posts and watched the media:  Cruel, demeaning, demoralizing and failing to offer a hint of respect for those who do not share the same opinions.  What's happening, in the meantime, when we aren't watching?

I recently watch Ethel: The Personal and Untold Story of Ethel Kennedy. It sparked an interest in Robert F. Kennedy.  I’ve always held an affinity to JFK, but I really don’t have a lot of knowledge on the Kennedy clan.  So I’ve done some digging.  I found a profound speech by RFK and his words truly inspire me.  

"…I think that we can work together - I don't think that we have to shoot at each other, to beat each other, to curse each other and criticize each other, I think that we can do better in this country...If we believe that we, as Americans, are bound together by a common concern for each other, then an urgent national priority is upon us.  We must begin to end the disgrace of this other America... Too much and for too long, we seemed to have surrendered personal excellence and community values in the mere accumulation of material things...We can do better here in the United States, we can do better.” -Robert F. Kennedy, March 18, 1968, University of Kansas[6]

Powerful stuff.


I want to believe in America again.  Disgrace comes when our focus is off.  And I’m not talking about faith or religion.  Ultimately, we are all human beings living this life together, regardless of your faith or the god you believe in.  I’m tired of fighting about who is right and wrong.  

Human beings were not created to be cruel to one other.  We were created to love one another.  We were created with unique personalities, thoughts and ideas, yet we were still created to love one another. 

I want to believe in the goodness of mankind again. 

I want to believe that when we stop relying on the media to tell us what is important and we start researching and finding the facts, we’ll truly begin to make informed decisions. 

Open your eyes and find something really important to fight for… what is the point of your fight? Will winning your argument feed a starving child, clothe the naked, provide shelter for a homeless family, give hope to the hopeless?    

If you answered no, it may be time to shut up and do something.

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